Episode #105 – Interview with Jon Birger, Author or Date Onomics

This week’s show is a pre-recorded interview with Jon Birger, the author of Date-onomics. If you recall, a few weeks ago I did a post about the book Fifty Shades of Date-Onimics. After I posted that Jon and I got to talking and made arrangements to do this interview. I got answers to some of the questions in my article, and so much more.

Where to find Jon Birger

Website: JonBirger.com or Dateonomics.com

Twitter: JonBirger1

Facebook: Dateonomics


Resources from the Show

The End of Men by Hannah Rosin

300 Sandwhiches by Stephanie Smith

Data – A Love Story by Amy Webb (Ted Talk Below)

Saturday Night Live – Settle App

It’s not that he’s just not that into you—it’s that there’s not enough of him. Using a combination of demographics, game theory, and number crunching, financial and tech journalist Jon Birger explains America’s curiously lopsided dating and marriage market—and what every single, college-educated, heterosexual woman needs to know.

Call it the man deficit. The shortage of college-educated men is not just a big-city phenomenon frustrating women in New York and L.A. Among young college grads, there are four women for every three men nationwide, except in those pockets, like Silicon Valley, where the economy is driven by a primarily male job market.

And this numbers game has wider implications. Birger shows how this unequal ratio explains the college and post-college hookup culture; the decline in marriage rates; even the seemingly paradoxical problem that the more attractive the woman is, the more difficult it can be for her to find a partner. He reaches back to explore the origins of the college gender gap—a combination of the pill, Title IX, and developmental differences between boys and girls.

Then there’s what to do about it, from what college to attend (any with strong sciences and math), to where to hang out (in New York, try a firemen’s bar), to where to live (Colorado, San Jose, Seattle), to embracing the power of the marriage ultimatum—it works.